Girls are told to be skinny but not too skinny and to wear makeup but not so much that guys can tell and to dress in revealing clothes but not too revealing or else you’re a slut and a hundred other contradictory standards so I think guys can deal with being made fun of for wearing fedoras
I just want to be able to make someone nervous in my presence. The good kind of nervous. Y’know? The kind where they stroke your face and your heart races because you just want to be with them and ask how their day was because you really want to know. You want to know everything they did, no matter how mundane it was, because you just want to do those mundane things with them.